Wash oxtail with lemon and vinegar, rinse, and pat dry
Mix oxtail with all marinade ingredients and marinate overnight or 1-2 hours
Heat coconut oil and add cinnamon, cardamom, and cloves for 10-15 seconds
Add chopped onion and sauté for 5-6 minutes until browned
Add jaggery and cook for 3-4 minutes until caramelised
Add oxtail and sear well until coloured
Add water to cover, garlic, chilies, ginger, pandan leaf, curry leaves, and tomato paste
Simmer covered on low heat for 2.5-3 hours until tender
Add salt to taste and coconut milk, then simmer for 20 more minutes
Serve with paratha
