Combine soy sauce, dark soy sauce, rice vinegar, hot sauce, Japanese BBQ sauce, and sweet & sour sauce in a bowl
Add sugar, lime juice, and ginger paste to the marinade
Stir in sliced jalapeño and red chili flakes
Boil tofu and place in a container
Pour marinade over the boiled tofu
Top with cilantro, green onions, and red onion slices
Let marinate before serving
