Saute the ginger, garlic, and red pepper flake in the sesame oil over low heat until lightly browned but not burned (about 3 minutes). Set aside to cool.
Mix the peanut butter with the coconut milk until a paste is formed. Mix in the rest of the ingredients one by one (except the chopped peanuts).
Add in the sauteed ginger, garlic, and red pepper flake.
Top with peanuts and dip away.
